Allow me to get to know you, mistakes and all
sebi.io235 points by sebi_io 18 hours ago
235 points by sebi_io 18 hours ago
AI writing sucks. The punchy words, the hyperbole, the monotony and pervasiveness are all exhausting. But I can’t deny there’s one upside. People who grew up speaking and living in other languages, people whose english is poor, finally have a level playground. It’s a great equaliser of our english writing privilege.
The thing that worries me most is that it's going to redefine the way we write. We absorb language. To compensate for all this AiSpeak I consume, I need to read more literature.
What’s human writing going to look like in a few years if this trend doesn’t stop? I believe that the LLMs will catch up soon and introduce more variance and fewer words designed for impact in their language, delivering us from this AiVerse into one where AI writing is almost indistinguishable from human writing. But until then, we must read more.
I find that AI is very useful for getting me past the 'blank page' writing block, but inevitably it writes in ways I would never, and so I end up editing it heavily. But, for me, a boy with ADHD, editing something is infinitely easier than writing it from scratch.
I think this is the opposite of how most people tend to use LLMs, and I actually think my way is the "better" way. My issue has never been the act of writing well, or clearly expressing what I mean... it has been the inertia of putting words on a page at all.
(and an LLM had nothing to do with this comment :P)
> I find that AI is very useful for getting me past the 'blank page' writing block, but inevitably it writes in ways I would never, and so I end up editing it heavily. But, for me, a boy with ADHD, editing something is infinitely easier than writing it from scratch.
As someone who also has ADHD, I would beg you to reconsider this strategy.
Getting the first thoughts down on paper is the hardest part, especially for those who may have trouble with focus, but that's exactly why you should practice it!
It's 90% of the task, it's where you have to practice executive function to plan what you're going to write in the overall broad sense. Please don't give up on it and hand that task over to the LLMs There are a lot of strategies you can use to break through that barrier and you'll be better off by strengthening that muscle instead of leaving it to wither.
I can do it. It's not like I'm not capable. I've spent 38 years 'strengthening that muscle', heh.
But I also have an automatic car, even though I know how to drive stick.
Tools are tools, and how you use them is the important part.
For me, the issue of getting words on paper isn't focus, but an inability to decide how I want to start a page; it's decision paralysis. Whatever an LLM writes is going to be crappy, because it isn't me, but seeing it immediately gives me guidance as to what I want to say, because I have something to respond to as opposed to just being in my head.
I can relate to the inclination, but so many new insights and moments of inspiration are necessarily confined to that painstaking iterative line-by-line process of real writing. When you are simply prompting and editing, you will fill the page (and it might even sound like “you”), but you will not have that delightful experience of encountering something unexpected along the way to filling it.
I think you missed my point. I don't go back and have AI re-edit my drafts, on average. I have it give me some words that are on a page so I can say 'this sucks' and engage in writing myself, as opposed to continuing to stare at a blank page.
The quality of the AI's writing actually doesn't matter, for me, as much as it might for others, as a result. I write my own stuff. I just find AI helpful to activate me to do it.
There's nothing stopping you from doing that with an LLM. I get more insights refining a draft through prompts than I ever did writing because there's more of it. The end stage of that process rarely sees the light of day because the artifact wasn't the point.
For writing as thinking with trouble starting from scratch, LLMs are the most important technology to emerge in my lifetime. Microblogging filled that gap in a way, but it had too many downsides.
>> you will not have that delightful experience of encountering something unexpected along the way to filling it.
> There's nothing stopping you from doing that with an LLM.
There may be, though. The LLM's initial output may anchor your thinking in insidious ways that may not be obvious at all especially since you're feeling productive. I bet the lack of confidence around starting would also increase over time every time you use an LLM to get over the hump.
Not so far.
I'm not talking about using a default mode LLM with LinkedIn Standard Obsequious Bullshit as a conversational imperative that emerges from simple prompts interacting with the heaviest weights. It pushes back because I told it to and it has redirects around common LLM failure modes, and modes unique to how I use them. That's in a set of instructions I've had a bunch of different models tear apart so I could put it back together better.
I treat it and describe it as a language coprocessor, not a buddy. The instructions are the kernel I boot it with.
Yeah, precisely. My "Bobby" knows my voice, but is not me, and is bad at using it. It is aware of all the tropes, and I've built a writing skill that describes, in great detail, how I write. I have also set it up to challenge me, not make me feel good.
Moreover, it's not like I spend my entire writing time arguing with an LLM, lol. I spend more time writing myself and/or doing research on the internet without an LLM, because sometimes they still get things wrong.
In short: it's a tool, not a solution.
Similar for me, I find it's an absolutely amazing "creative unblocker".
It generally has enough "activation energy" to get me over the hump of wherever I've been mentally stuck.
Yes this is my use-case for it too - it's great to generate a structure which I will keep but I always end up reworking all the actual content so it sounds like me. It is a great way to get past the 'getting started' hurdle though.
You're the first articulating my exact use case with AI as well! It really helps get me in 'the zone'. I actually now dictate as well and then the AI rewrite it and then I start editing. To lower the barrier even more.
Yeah, I've used dictation at times for the same reason.
I don't like how LLMs write. I like how I write.
But I do like that LLMs get me to write. People seem to miss that a lot, because most of the "AI slop" you see is AI-driven, not human-driven. But human-driven writing, with AI as a tool, is a far better way to go about it, imho.
I think there's a useful distinction nobody here is making: there's a difference between using AI as a writing tool and using AI as a thinking tool.
Most people in this thread are talking about the output stage. You know: polish my text, fix my grammar, generate my message. That's where you lose your voice. But the blank page problem borski describes isn't really a writing problem, it's a thinking problem. Once you know what you want to say, saying it tends to be the easy part for us writers (sometimes lol!).
The most useful thing I've found is using AI to figure out what I actually think, using it for rubber ducking, exploring angles, stress-testing arguments, and then closing the tab and writing it myself. You get the cognitive help without losing the (or your) soul. I've output more writing in my own genuine voice in the last year than I did in several years prior, and it's because I use AI for clarity instead of replacing my output.
I really don't mind text filtered through an LLM per se. But I prefer high signal-to-token so to speak. The way humans talk and write means that the seemingly extraneous text they add often provides an interesting insight into the thought patterns of the person, and therefore mistakes or even pointless monologues can be interesting.
This is not always true. Once there was an online reaction to short content that made people treat "long-form" content as desirable entirely due to its length. I rather like reading books and the New Yorker's fiction section when I still subscribed, but much of this "long-form" content was token-expansion of a formulaic nature which I did not enjoy. LLMs have mastered this kind of long-form token-expansion.
This is assuming people are using an LLM in good faith, obviously. One day, perhaps LLMs will learn to express what someone is saying in an elegant way that is enjoyable for people like me to read. But even then, I will have the difficulty of distinguishing whether this is a human speaking through an LLM in good faith or a human who has set up a machine that is set up to mimic a human.
The latter is undesirable to me because I have access to the best such machines at a remarkably low cost. Were I to desire a conversation with an LLM, it is trivial for me to find one. I'm not coming here for that[0].
A sufficiently insightful LLM which prompts my thinking in certain ways wouldn't be unwelcome to me, I suppose. I have a couple of my friends for whom I still go on Twitter to read what they say even after I have stopped using the site routinely. If I found out the posts were entirely an LLM I think I would still read them simply because I find the posts useful and with sufficiently high signal-to-token.
0: Certainly, if every place only spoke about things I was interested in and never in things I was not interested in, I wouldn't need separation of interest spaces at all. But the variation of interest vectors for different humans has made this impossible.
> The way humans talk and write means that the seemingly extraneous text they add often provides an interesting insight into the thought patterns of the person, and therefore mistakes or even pointless monologues can be interesting.
I totally agreed with you. I'm French (nobody is perfect ^^), I'm not so fluent in english and I'm dyslexic, that why I often write my message, then I ask to Claude to translate it in english because i'm feeling I will lose the credibility of my message if there is too much mistake... But you're right, so this message is not translated by LLM :D
It's perfectly fine to run your English text through an LLM if you're not sure about grammar/spelling. That's also how you learn to improve.
Your post is comprehensible but has multiple mistakes and they are a distraction (which is fine in this context, but in other contexts it might hinder communication).
> I will lose the credibility
There's grammatical mistakes and then there is sloppiness. Only the second makes me disregard someone's comment.
> I will lose the credibility of my message if there is too much mistake...
The correct way to write this is "if there are too many mistakes", because mistakes are countable and plural. And it's fine to make grammatical mistakes if English is not your native language. You can only get better by practising :-)
If I was French I'd end all my badly-written comments with a little French lesson, and that would make the readers forgive my errors and make me look intelligent and cultured. A beau mentir qui vient de loin, as we say in French. Le lémurien têtu porte des cache-oreilles.
I'm curious, why would you use an LLM to translate French to English? Why not use a dedicated translator such as DeepL, which will not only save you tokens/energy, but will also be much closer to your personal phrasing?
That's a really good question. Before, I was using Google Translate, which is not perfect. Now I'm using Claude and I think I tend to centralize my tools... Like before, when I was using both Google Search and Google Translate, now I just use Claude for a lot of thing.
Plus, I think Claude is a better model than the one used by Google Translate, but correct me if I'm wrong.
But you're right, DeepL should be perfect to do it, because is model is dedicated for translations !
unfortunately deepl is not free. i used to prefer it over google translate until it told me that i used it to much so i would be blocked for 18 days.
google translate on the other hand i suspect is using LLMs in the background because sometimes the translation is absolutely nonsensical.
Same situation here. English is not my first language and I use Claude constantly to clean up my writing. Not to sound like someone else, just to make sure what I'm trying to say actually comes across clearly. The irony is that the more polished text sometimes gets less engagement because people assume it's fully AI generated, while a messier version with obvious non-native patterns would feel more human.
I would genuinely rather read this than read an AI-generated piece. AI-generated articles read like they are trying to sell me on their scam crypto meme coin.
Yeah, some colleagues started using ChatGPT for internal communication as well. While we don’t like to mandate or prohibit anyone from using any tools, we did need to make it really clear to everyone that this is not productive. Grammarly to make small corrections to external recipients is fine. Using ChatGPT to “polish” your message is not. If you’re not sure about your English abilities, we offer you free English lessons and encourage giving each other feedback during chats.
LLMs shouldn’t be used for communication at all if you want any form of authenticity.
I work at a large company with a global workforce and it would not surprise me in the slightest if some number of my coworkers were spending this weekend trying to figure out how to secretly automate their entire job with openclaw and the company's Claude enterprise subscription.
You can take one step ahead and let user write in their own language then you figure out how to make sense of it.
i do that when i don't trust the persons ability to translate to english without error. if they are using a tool to translate to english, then i might as well use that tool myself, with the benefit that i then have the original untranslated message too and can use it to get a second opinion if the translation doesn't make sense. if all i have is the translation then i am stuck with that.
Tbe hard truth is at work there is no authenticity.
Definitely not getting any better if everyone starts using ChatGPT for private communications.
Bad thing X has been happening for a while. Let's all work towards making it worse.
Why play this word game that has nothing to do with their point? I can write an email about TPS reports in my own voice without caring about the subject matter. That's authentic. I care about performing my job well and with individuality and (no pun intended) agency.
The way the post is written, I wonder if the author is working for a company going through a growth spurt and where, through sheer size, everything is becoming more "corporate".
There's a huge difference between having AI clean up a text you send privately to someone you have worked closely with for years, versus a broad spectrum text sent by a VP to hundreds of people or more. The first case is reprehensible, for the reasons the author lays out. But as for the second case, corporate doublespeak has been a meme since long before the advent of AI and it would remain even in some AI-pocalypse. Just because your boss puts out sanitized language in a mass communication, doesn't inherently mean your boss won't still be present and real with you in a more private setting.
I wonder if the way that LLMs write - the super generic, soulless communication - is also due to them being trained on public communication.
On other side it is what they are tuned to produce. It is what majority wants or accepts or at least expects. If that type of content is everywhere. And various types of "leetspeak" or slang is considered unprofessional and thus undesirable. That is what you have left.
On other side, you have to think uproar what something that could be perceived as say racist by most radical people would cause... You really don't have much left and to aim at blandness. With certain flourishes that makes you look more "Learned".
It absolutely is their alignment on this. They are purposefully designed to be like that.
Yes, the more personal the context, the more the humanity aspect / being relatable matters.
This is starting to become my latest pet peeve, people using Claude to write their messages in Slack. I'm going to just stop communicating via text with these people.
It's one thing to have Claude polish a message and another thing for it to write out an entire message.
I have noticed this in GitHub issues too. Where many long paragraphs used to indicate high quality, now it's the opposite.
I've seen this come up in a few comments, so I'm just adding it to a separate one in case it helps folks.
Something I have seen a lot of people talk about in the comments here, as well as do in practice within my company and friends, family, etc., is that they say something and then let Claude or GPT rephrase it to be added as a prompt that they'll then use.
In my experience, this will almost always bring about worse results than if you communicated directly with the LLM. I believe this happens because of a few reasons.
1. LLMs tend to do word inflation in that they'll create plausible-sounding prompts, but the words that they introduce have a higher propensity to create worse cookie-cutter results from other agents, coding assistants, writing assistants, or any other form that has been used.
2. By putting a layer in between what we're saying and what the LLMs interpret, we're not honing our ability to articulate and prompt better and wholly depend on the intermediary getting better or being able to interpret better, which does not translate well in practice.
3. Anecdotal, but in my case, when I was doing this myself, it was because I assumed I was harder to understand and not articulate enough to get good results. So I tried speeding up the results by trying to use an intermediary. What I learned, though, was training myself to be articulate and to not doubt myself was easier than getting results from the LLM interpreters.
of course with anything, ymmv.
Working in open source, I've now heard a wide variety of disabilities that people have and they have to be aided by an LLM for writing even descriptions of their PRs.
I’m not sure what you’re trying to say? How did these people write PRs before?
There are many possibilities. There are assistive technologies of various levels of quality, there is human assistance, and then there is simply being unable to participate.
Chris McCausland says he relies a lot less on others due to AI.
It has been quite effective in showing how diversity can influence opinions when he has been on radio programs and offered his perspective. There have been conversations which have started on the usual circular crapping on AI that I'm sure that everyone here has witnessed themselves that becomes much more nuanced when he says how his life has changed.
That's why diversity is important. Don't do it like Star Trek Discovery which has 'I know! let's use diversity to solve this problem. Great! That was super effective! Now everybody go back to your minor roles'
That's a recurring thing through Star Trek. Geordi's visor saved a whole civilization once. I'm not actually sure what you're referring to in Discovery despite watching the whole thing.
Geordie's thing was mostly superpower-but-you-look-idiotic.
Discovery was just so ham fisted when they tried to make points and missed massive opportunities when they could have been done organicity because of the situation.
I really thought the first extra plus future season was going to be a comment on colonialism, but no they just turned up, said they were the more civilised ones and y'all should join our new improved federation. The opportunity was just sitting there to show people figuring out their own culture and not appreciating an interloper dictating how their lives should be simply because they have a fancy starship.
Not to mention declaring their ship sentient because it dreams. It just screams 'conform to our expectations of what sentience should be and we will accept you as a person' They portrayed the exact opposite of what they intended.
(sorry for the rant, I was mauled by a Federation as a child)
> Geordie's thing was mostly superpower-but-you-look-idiotic.
I always thought it was one of those banana hair clips, spray painted gold.
As an admirer of low budget creativity, it’s very inspiring. But it still looks ridiculous.
That's okay. I see what you mean though. Starfleet Academy has done a decent job addressing that with some issues I hope they'll deal with in season 2.
They meant people like to find valid sounding excuses to use AI for their writing.
That I know. If I hear “I’ve only used it to clean it up” one more time my head is going to explode.
It feels so disrespectful sometimes too, having to read a long paragraph that conveys so little meaning knowing full well the original prompt was probably very short and I'm now wasting extra time parsing the hollow LLM text expansion.
Easy fix: use an LLM to summarize it.
(only half-joking, a part of me fears that this is the reality we’re moving towards)
That's absolutely what's happening already: write for me for the writer, summarise this for me for the reader. At some point it will become clear how absurdly wasteful we're being (right now, we're being paid to ignore that waste).
> write for me for the writer, summarise this for me for the reader.
It's funny though. For computer to computer conversation, we have invented (deflate+inflate) algorithms to save bandwidth, time and money.
On the other hand for human to human communication, we are in the process of inventing a (inflate+deflate) method and at the same time we are spending insane amounts of time, money & bandwidth to make it possible!
We need to come up with a catchy buzzword salad to market to executives. Something like "increased communication efficiency between workers by direct brain-email-brain interface"
I havily use llms for internal communication. I receive docen request per day from colleagues asking me very specific stuff by mail or teams about processes, setups, master data, my particular experiences with approaches, for contacts within our big corp or just general knowledge questions and how I would recommend to tackle certain problems: Setting up conditions in sap, where to find certain info or just send them current setups. Also they ask me about strategic advices. I use my personal knowledge base to automatically prepare drafts of the answers based on previous answers to other colleages. Before the llm time I could barely help all of then. I got more productive by x-times. I then digest the emails again back to my knowledge system. People have no problem with receiving obviously llm written answers. But because of the particular domain knowledge they know it can only come from me. Excuse my writing, this did not went though the same system :)
Edit: And now I forgot the most important. When the knowledge the llm retrieved is insufficient to answer colleagues question or the agent skill can not execute the requested task from my colleague, it asks me just for the missing info or skill and with me (the human) in the loop work is done x times faster. Eventually it will replace me and all my colleagues one day. Looking forward to do other stuff then
> People have no problem with receiving obviously llm written answers.
If I asked you for your particular experience on something and got an obvious LLM reply, I might say nothing or I might ask if it was an LLM, but either way I’m unlikely to ask you something or trust you ever again. Which also works for you, I guess, since it’d be one fewer person taking up your time. But if you had instead told me “I’m too swamped to help right now” I would’ve instead offered to help take some burden off your back.
This sounds like a very odd and very lonely job to me. Reading your description I pictured a comically tiny room with only one opening for incoming requests and another one for outgoing responses. Obviously silly, but in an abstract sense maybe not that far from the truth?
It also sounds like you were overworked and when you started to use LLMs you've stripped yourself of the chance to work with a colleague.
> Reading your description I pictured a comically tiny room with only one opening for incoming requests and another one for outgoing responses.
I pictured the normal work from home slack experience.
But I suppose your picture and mine might not have been so different.
I don't often use AI to cleanup my texts, but when I do, I fully own the output. I make a conscious decision whether to leave in every AI suggestion or not. The final text _is_ what I want to say.
The point of the article is it is not what you would've said. Even though you take responsibility for the result, you were never 100% the origin.
and the reason for that is that we passively understand more than we actively use, but when reading something we often can not distinguish our active and passive knowledge of an expression. so when you read a filtered text, it will sound fine because you are familiar with the expressions used, but you don't realize that some of those expressions are not actually in your active vocabulary.
> When you run your message through an LLM, it will inevitably obscure what you actually wanted to say; we choose words for a reason after all - even if they’re sometimes not the right words.
We may choose words for a reason, but sometimes we choose the wrong words. Sometimes it may be closely spelled words, and you choose the incorrect version. Sometimes it may be because our understanding of the definition of a word is wrong. Either way, it can be problematic when you say one thing when you meant to say something else.
Now I grew up in the olden days. I reach for a dictionary in such cases. On the other hand, I can certainly understand why people would reach for an LLM. LLMs can examine an entire document at once, it will catch errors that you are not familiar with, and it will catch a much larger range of errors. Is it perfect in doing so? Of course not, but it is better than nothing.
“running your texts through the genericizer” - what a lovely way to put it!
I largely reached the same conclusion recently => https://stephencagle.dev/posts-output/2025-10-14-you-should-...
That’s exactly why I’ve refused to use autocomplete on smartphone keyboards from the very beginning. I want to express myself in my own words.
In a work context, of course, things are a bit different: I want to move the project forward and not jeopardize my future paychecks. Authenticity tends to take a back seat there. However, I’d be more concerned about inefficiency. Is it really necessary to run every piece of communication through ChatGPT to refine the wording? Are you sure nothing gets lost in the process? Doesn’t that end up wasting a lot of work time without adding any real value?
And on top of that, it leads to alienation and frustration. If you talk to me as if you were an LLM, don’t be surprised if I talk to you as if you were an LLM.
> That’s exactly why I’ve refused to use autocomplete on smartphone keyboards from the very beginning. I want to express myself in my own words.
Autocomplete drives me up the wall. I have what I want to say in mind. I go to write it. There are times when it can replicate what I have in mind word by word. I don't know whether the emotional reaction is caused by feeling robotically predictable or because the words no longer feel like my own.
I feel the same and I experience less pressure when writing because for the first time it seems being a bit sloppy can be advantageous.
The only thing is that my anecdata contradicts it. My AI cleaned up writing seems to fare much better and this seems to be true across all channels. To be clear I do not mean AI generated just AI cleaned, that is spelling, punctuation, grammar mainly, the occasional word order change.
In the end it's about getting the message across first and "get to know me" second and proper and clear expression helps a lot with the first.
> spelling, punctuation, grammar mainly, the occasional word order change.
All of those you could already achieve with tools before LLMs.
Which grammar tools?
Even the system spell checker in Apple devices points out grammar mistakes. Vale works on the command-line, Grammarly was already a thing before publicly available LLMs. There are also editors like iA Writer (iA, not AI) which highlight clichés, adverbs, nouns, and more.
The level of AI use you're describing isn't what people are complaining about (and probably don't even notice). Fixing grammar and occasional word order change isn't going to make your entire article sound like insincere bullshit.
Imagine going to work or a social meeting where everyone looks and sounds the same(or just a limited set) all with the same perfect tone, body language and communication style. Sounds like a nightmare and I would find it hard to relate and get that "perspective", when there is nothing to differentiate a person.
I guess everyone using LLMs for text is similar to that. If everyone uses the same LLM style, its hard to understand where the other person is coming from. This is not a problem for technical and precise communication though(the choice of LLMs in that context has other risks).
It is also strictly not an LLM capability problem because they can mimic or retain the original style and just "polish" with enough hints but that takes time, investment and people go through path of least resistance. So, we all end up with similar text with typical AI-isms.
There are other reasons to dislike LLM text like padding and effort asymmetry that have been discussed here enough.
I used to use LLMs to 'clean up' my own writings, and in the end I agree with the author here: it doesn't really help. The reader will have this impression of 'too perfect', and will have a diminished feeling of value, of honesty. I think we would benefit from a standardized way of signaling text and content that is exclusively human. Say, some sort of logo that says 'genuine', 'untouched by the hand of AI'. I'll be thinking about a way to do this.
To me the rhythm of the text makes it clear whether I'm reading something AI generated or not, usually.
Otherwise, not using em dashes, adding some mistakes and writing more like how you think/talk helps :)
I think there was an SMBC comic about this topic, but I don't think I can find it, and the site doesn't exactly make it easy. I don't even remember if it was pre-2020 or not.
It was about how people would get a thing (a robot?) that would repeat whatever they said but in a more fancy way (or something along those lines), to make them sound smarter. Then the people would start depending on these robots to communicate at all, to the point their speech degrades and they start making unintelligible noises that the robots still translate into actual speech.
EDIT: Found it, from 2014: https://smbc-comics.com/index.php?id=3576
AI flattens everything I think. Not sure how to articulate it properly, but it reduces depth of any kind somehow
When I wrote a snarky mail to the MD and I couldn’t suppress my anger, Claude did a great job smoothing it out while keeping it pointy.
Wouldn't the sender be the better judge of the accuracy of what they wanted to communicate? If they feel the LLM version more closely matches their intent, then we should accept it.
There are good arguments to get to know someone "mistakes and all", I just don't think this is a particularly good one. No matter how much you (think) you know someone, they probably know them(selves) better.
Last time I did that, I got pointed out as an ESL and got insulted and laughed at.
Honestly that's a sign you shouldn't stay around those people. If you're financially dependent on it and can't leave, okay, exception granted, but that kind of behavior isn't ok.
Sounds like terrible people. I’ve worked with plenty of people who didn’t start with English and if you give them time they usually excel
Once asked Claude to guess what the prompt was that generated a mail. Didn’t work unfortunately.
I recently heard a new (to me) excuse:
When in the middle of a group text-chat, someone replied with AI-generated blather. It was dead-clear with the usual sterile vocab, structured buzzphrases, and other LLM "tells".
I politely called him out and asked to use his own voice. In public he insisted that it was his voice and that he used AI only for "formatting". But in private he admits that he created a "gem to assist with multicultural comms", which generated the text. He claims he did it because "not everyone can take the native American English well". A load of bovine manure. I nicely told him to cut this crap and just write as it comes to him. (Basic spell- and grammar-check is fine.)
I tried to say this on another thread, where it got the reception I expected, but I'll say it here too: People say "let me get to know you, mistakes and all" and then downvote me. If you want me to not run my comments through an LLM, stop reacting badly to the delivery.
There are two ways to write an email. One is to keep it short and to the point that so there are obviously no errors, the other is to waffle on and obfuscate the message with an LLM so that the reader's eyes glaze over...or something like that.
"I would have written a shorter letter, but did not have the time."
i can ramble without an LLM, and i suppose you can ask an LLM to keep it short. but both are results of not taking the time to craft an appropriate message.
In emails...whatever. I can tell it's there but fine whatever, we're just trying to get a message across LLM or otherwise.
But this was the first year I saw it in performance review write-ups which frankly was jarring. Here is feedback supposedly 1:1 that massively affects this person's life and their perception of "worth" so to speak...and it's just AI.
Notably it was split by geography. EU countries closest to organic, india slop trainwreck, US in the middle
Sorta made me conclude "ok i guess that's the end of performance reviews that vaguely mean anything & actually get read"
Yet another example of “visible AI usage” becoming a negative label.
“Powered by AI” is a trendy marketing term on every website today. In a couple years it’ll be considered blasé, and while AI features will still exist, they’ll be called something like automation or workflows.
I use ChatGPT for communication. It started with "please fix typos" and now it's "write me a slack message about this and that". This is mostly an effect of the communication environment we created - taking risks is rarely rewarded, and mistakes can be very costly. Remember, you're always one misunderstood message away from being fired. Of course there are people whom I trust and I'd never offend them with AI-generated slop, but the rest of the humanity - it is what it is, LLMs help me a lot.
> Remember, you're always one misunderstood message away from being fired.
If this is true, you really want to be fired. That is a horrendous work environment, and you should quit if at all possible.
Most workplaces (any certainly any good workplace) will seek to understand, not fire you immediately.
Blessed are those who haven't worked corproate.
I have worked plenty of corporate jobs; Morgan Stanley, KBC Financial Products, Apple, the intelligence community (not corporate, but just as bad).
Never once was I "one misunderstood message" away from getting canned. I would have quit immediately if that were true. I understand not everyone can quit, but more people can than do.
Nobody deserves to work under that kind lack of of psychological safety, and certainly anyone on Slack and not in a factory has more of a choice.
I've worked corporate jobs all my life, and I was never one misunderstood message away from being fired. Instead they would've talked to me and, even if they figured it was my fault, they would've given me a warning since it was the first time. No worthwhile employer is firing people for the first offense, corporate or otherwise.
> I've worked corporate jobs all my life, and I was never one misunderstood message away from being fired.
100% you have been, you just didn't understand nor send the wrong message.
As a sidenote, working for a Corporation is not solely the bar for what people mean when they say working for Corporate. "Corporate" implies a larger organization that promotes policies developed under different circumstances to your work environment which minimizes liability and promotes homogeneity in all aspects of the working experience.
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> It robs me of getting to know you.
Ugh, you are not entitled to get to know me. There is a threshold between all that I share with the world and the rest of me. Hell, not every person gets the same picture, and that's deliberate and healthy--my customers don't get to know what my proctologist knows. My mother doesn't get to know what my wife knows.
You don't get to know all of me, because I don't trust you.
This post comes across as sweet, and innocent. It also comes across as absurdly self-entitled, and it's not an OK posture to take towards the world. It's not OK when the police take this posture, it's not OK when private companies take this posture, and it's not OK when strangers on the internet take this posture.
You are entitled to withdraw from relationships that don't fulfill your emotional needs. A reasonable audience for this missive is your girlfriend, your child (who relies on you), or your employer (to whom you are vulnerable).
Weaponised therapy speak is gross. This article was not asking you to spill your life story to every person you meet, it was asking you to speak with your own voice, which is a perfectly normal and in no way entitled thing to be asking.
What are you rambling about? It’s not about your doctor using ChatGPT for his newsletter, it’s about your colleagues using ChatGPT on Slack or email.
I personally think that the people who can’t be bothered to actually write authentic messages, and assume that everyone will just read their word salad full of repetitive AI patterns, are being the ones acting entitled.
It is, because of the baked-in asymmetry. "I couldn't be bothered to write it, but you have to read it". Unless your expectation is that I'm going to have my chatbot summarize the messages from your chatbot, in which case, maybe we should just both ride off into the sunset.
Indeed, sebi articulates people who are arguing from a dominance strategy mindset (mistakes and all!), rather than an exchange of ideas.
It's not "getting to know you" in that sense, it's getting to know the public face you present, whether I can trust you, and how I can interact with you most smoothly. If you're my coworker and you don't ever want to talk about your family or friends or personal interests or problems or anything, that's fine.
in some cultures getting to know you is a crucial part of a business relationship. no connection -> no business.
likewise for friends (not just your girlfriend), getting to know you is part of developing friendship.
so family, friends, work, business, that pretty much covers everyone you deal with on a regular basis.
i would go as far as saying that if you don't trust me then you have no business even communicating with me unless the interaction is incidental.
I'm so tired of hearing that word online.
True: Nobody is entitled to be treated nicely. Nobody is entitled to an open, friendly relationship. Nobody is entitled to get to know you. If we only did what we were entitled to do, and received what we were entitled to receive, the world would be an even shittier place than it already is. We have enough people walking around with the "You're not entitled to me being nice, so I'm not gonna be! nyaaaaa!" attitudes.
and acťually i believe the opposite is true: we are entitled to be treated nicely. we are entitled to an open and friendly relationship. and while i agree that we are not entitled to get to know you, i'd prefer to deal with an authentic person, because hiding behind a generic facade makes it easier for someone to impersonate you, putting you at risk of becoming a victim of identity theft.
> Ugh, you are not entitled to get to know me.
If your comment is at all indicative of how you are in real life, I really don't think you have to worry about people wanting to get to know you.